Usually guys will treat these are wasting time and money... Girls think these are the precious moment as it is the moment of the life time. Well, it just the thinking of girl and guys are so different, but doesn't mean it is not a good thing. ( I personally still doesn't fancy this kind of thing )
Perhaps I have been through the process once, though we didn't follow exactly the rules and regulation... Some said it was the blessing from everyone. ( although many will moan especially when they will get a few in a month ) but they will attend and keep moaning until they shout YAMMMM SINGGGG loudly.
I do not had the wedding dinner, as we just simply penned down a signature and another one after few years. It could be the major reason... No dinner.... Hmmmm.... I doubt (still)..... Lack of the blessing from everyone... (or it is about time to admit the lack of communication from both parties... Perhaps)
It was about the same time 2 years ago where the question were raised about this issue. The answer from me come later after few months, where I sincerely doesn't think it is such a good idea to hold on to something that I shouldn't to.... Harsh isn't it? I doubt that as well. (seems I don't have any certain answer for everything)
Always it was a beautiful day and blessing moment to see some friends getting involved in those event and as others said, getting into the married list and started a new family... It is about the age to do so, in fact... Most of us has surplus that age limit. New generation either getting it done earlier or later. In fact it shouldn't be counted by time, doesn't mean being together long enough, it will automatically trigger the marriage... It just mutual agreement will raise, and only they knew it.
Still I am worried by a word from a friend... As she met most of the bird that do not have legs... That they doesn't want to settle down, or being tied up... With unknown or nonsense reason... Well, for me, perhaps the shadow of the previous marriage... I sometimes think I am not even equip with the wings to fly.... Sad....
Perhaps is another symptom of being too free for a long period and you hardly can find the way back to the cage to lock the freedom again. If you asked me whether to dip into it again.... Certainly there are no certain answer for it... Sometimes a bigger hope just another plane landing hard....
Sometimes let it be, follow the flow will kills many hopes as you giving no action in the tide... In order to save yourself, somehow you have to hang on to something... Instead just let the speedy tide flush you away. It could be a way to save yourself, or it could be giving a change for others to let you a hand.
A love that can start with a feel and ends with it as well... But a marriage required a more solid base for everything, from every aspect. No matter romantically, reality, love and bun... You have to love the bun to eat it, you need the bun to maintain the love sometimes.
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